Something that upsets me is how many of my gorgeous, brilliant, magical women clients have been brainwashed by old-fashioned tropes about what it means “to be feminine” in love.
It's not the “feminine” part that upsets me — it's those old cliches about “how the feminine should act so the masculine wants her" that translate into women feeling they have to be passive in love.
No!
That’s the fast-track to giving away your power … and missing out on the love you want.
In this week’s new podcast episode, I share more about what feminine power might actually look like in a dating context.
This topic gets me feisty…
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xo Ezzie
P.S. I offer immersive 1:1 journeys for a very small number of clients via an application and interview process. You can apply here. For a simple and potent self-study option, start my LOVEABLE program here now.
FROM “WHO AM I TO MEET A GUY WHO FITS ME?” TO BEST RELATIONSHIP OF MY LIFE
re.love fundamentally changed my life — initially I signed up hoping that it would help me “unfreeze” my heart. Due to some unpleasant experiences I had lost the ability to feel love. I was simply stuck in my incapability to get the tiniest warm feeling in my chest - not for life, not for myself, not for my adorable nephew or my cherished kitty-cat. I would have been perfectly content if re.love only solved that issue for me, but Ezzie’s magical program just went above and beyond: I was able to re-access that warm and delicious feeling of love after the first week. Then I went on to trusting myself more, treating myself so much better, being emotionally more resilient and just feeling luminously happy in life.
Before I started re.love I estimated that it would take me quite a while to feel like dating again. So I didn’t expect anything in that regard from the program and was surprised when after just two months I actually felt ready to go out and date and meet someone.
I used to think: "who am I to meet the guy who really fits me" ? I met him almost on the first try. I have never been in a relationship as good as this. We're moving in together in the summer. I still can't quite believe it. I wouldn't be in this place without re.love - B